Bringing a baby into the world is life-changing—beautiful, exhausting, overwhelming, and everything in between. You knew things would shift, but maybe you didn’t expect just how much your relationship would be tested. Suddenly, the person you once stayed up late laughing with is now someone you argue with over who got less sleep.
You're not alone. Studies show that most couples experience a dip in relationship satisfaction in the first few years of parenthood. Some find a way to adapt and grow together, while others struggle to feel like a team. That’s where therapy comes in—helping you figure out what’s not working and how to rebuild connection in this new phase of life.
One of the biggest sources of tension for new parents is the invisible load—everything that needs to be remembered, planned, and managed to keep your baby (and your household) running. Even in the most well-intentioned relationships, one person often takes on more of this burden, leading to exhaustion and resentment.
The goal isn’t just to split tasks evenly—it’s about recognizing and valuing each other’s contributions. Conversations about expectations, mental load, and emotional labor can help prevent the quiet resentment that can build over time.
Becoming parents is a beautiful and brutal initiation. It changes everything—your routines, your roles, your relationship. I work with new parents who are feeling the weight of that shift and wondering, “Are we okay?”
I help you and your partner make sense of the changes—not just logistically, but emotionally. We’ll explore how becoming parents is activating your own upbringing, your nervous systems, your communication styles, and your needs for connection and space. All of that shows up in this season—and all of it is workable.
I create a space where you can talk about the hard things: resentment, exhaustion, identity loss, sex, co-parenting conflicts, and the grief that sometimes comes with such a huge life change. My approach is relational, trauma-informed, and deeply compassionate—because this isn’t just about fixing problems. It’s about helping you feel more connected, seen, and supported in your partnership as you navigate the new terrain of parenthood.
Whether you're looking for in-person therapy in Hermosa Beach or virtual sessions across California, I offer a space to slow down, tune in, and start rewriting the story together.